Ages & stages
1 year to 2 years oldAt 1 year
General
- waves “bye-bye”;
- calls a parent “mama” or “dada” or another special name;
- understands “no” (pauses briefly or stops when you say it);
- puts something in a container, like a block in a cup; looks for things they see you hide, like a toy under a blanket;
- pulls up to stand;
- walks, holding on to furniture; drinks from a cup without a lid, as you hold it;
- picks things up between thumb and pointer finger, like small bits of food.
By 1 year, most babies will
- Look for and be able to find where a sound is coming from.
- Respond to their name most of the time when you call it.
- Wave goodbye.
- Look where you point when you say, “Look at the _________.”
- Babble with intonation (voice rises and falls as if they are speaking in sentences).
- Take turns “talking” with you—listen and pay attention to you when you speak and then resume babbling when you stop.
- Say “da-da” to dad and “ma-ma” to mom.
- Say at least 1 word.
- Point to items they want that are out of reach or make sounds while pointing.
12–16 months
- Make an obstacle course with boxes or furniture that baby can climb over, under, or through.
- Make noisy shakers by filling containers with different sounding objects (and secured with tight fitting lids).
- Cut up safe finger foods and let baby pick them up, feel the textures, and feed themself.
- Make puppets out of a sock or paper bag and have the puppet “talk” to you and encourage baby to talk back.
At around 18 months
General
- moves away from you, but looks to make sure you are close by;
- points to show you something interesting;
- looks at a few pages in a book with you;
- help you dress them by pushing arms through sleeves or lifting up feet;
- tries to say three or more words besides “mama” or “dada”;
- follows one-step directions without any gestures, like giving you the toy when you say “Give it to me”;
- plays with toys in a simple way, like pushing a toy car;
- walks without holding onto anyone or anything; scribbles;
- climbs on and off a couch or chair without help.
Between 1 & 2 years, most toddlers will
- Follow simple commands, first when the adult speaks and gestures, and then later with words alone.
- Get objects from another room when asked.
- Point to a few body parts when asked.
- Point to interesting objects or events to get you to look at them too.
- Bring things to you to show you.
- Point to objects so you will name them.
- Name a few common objects and pictures when asked.
- Enjoy pretending (for example, pretend cooking). They will use gestures and words with you or with a favorite stuffed animal or doll.
- Learn about 1 new word per week between 1½ and 2 years.
16–20 months
- Help your toddler play cleanup games and sort objects into piles.
- Give your toddler a small wagon or an old purse for “collecting” things. They can fill and empty it and pull it around.
- Sing action songs like “Itsy Bitsy Spider” and do the actions together.
- Expose your toddler to the joys of playing in water and playing with bubbles.
- Use boxes or buckets for your toddler to throw beanbags or balls into.
By the age of 2 years
General
- notices when others are hurt or upset, like pausing or looking sad when someone is crying;
- points to things in a book when you ask, like “Where is the bear?”;
- says at least two words together, like “More milk”;
- tries to use switches, knobs, or buttons on a toy;
- plays with more than one toy at the same time, like putting toy food on a toy plate;
- kicks a ball;
- runs;
- walks (not climbs) up a few stairs with or without help;
- eats with a spoon.
Most toddlers will
- Point to many body parts and common objects.
- Point to some pictures in books.
- Follow 1-step commands without a gesture like “Put your cup on the table.”
- Be able to say about 50 to 100 words.
- Say several 2-word sentences and phrases like “Daddy go,” “Doll mine,” and “All gone.”
- Be understood by others (or by adults) about half of the time.
20–24 months
- Hide a loudly ticking clock or a softly playing radio in a room and have the toddler find it, then take turns hiding and finding.
- Turn objects upside down (books, cups, shoes, etc.) and see if the toddler notices and turns them back. Toddlers like “silly” games.
- Teach the song “Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes” to reinforce naming body parts (and name other details too such as teeth, eyebrows, fingernails, etc.).
developmental areas
Gross motor
Your toddler will start to walk independently.
Fine motor
They’ll be able to build towers using 2 cubes.
Communication and hearing
Your toddler will be able to say one word at a time, such as “no” or the name of a particular object.
Social and emotional
They’ll play alongside other children but not with them. This is called parallel play.
Your child may:
- be easily frightened by loud noises – they may cry if they are startled by a sound like a door slamming
- want your attention and praise
 react to changes in their daily routine
- be able to soothe and comfort themselves as well as getting comfort from you
Problem-solving, learning and understanding
Your toddler will put 2 cubes into 1 hand to help them take a third cube.
Social/emotional milestones
- Copies other children while playing, like taking toys out of a container when another child does
- Shows you an object they like
- Claps when excited
- Hugs stuffed doll or other toy
- Shows you affection (hugs, cuddles, or kisses you)
Language/ communication milestones
- Tries to say one or two words besides “Mama” or “Dada,” like “ba” for “ball” or “da” for “dog”
- Looks at a familiar object when you name it
- Follows directions given with both a gesture and words. For example, giving you a toy when you hold out your hand and say, “Give me the toy.”
- Points to ask for something or to get help
Cognitive milestones (learning, thinking, problem-solving)
- Tries to use objects the right way, like a phone, cup, or book
- Stacks at least two small objects, like blocks
Movement/physical development milestones
- Takes a few steps without help
- Uses fingers to feed themselves some food
developmental areas
Gross motor
Your toddler will crawl upstairs. Their legs will be stiff when they run.
Fine motor
They’ll be able to build towers using 3 cubes.
Communication and hearing
Your toddler will have a vocabulary of 5 to 10 words.
Social and emotional
They’ll start doing pretend play.
This is when your toddler pretends objects or actions are other make-believe objects or ideas as play. For example, pretending blocks are a house or pretending to talk on a phone.
Your child may:
- enjoy getting praise and attention from you
- get upset when they don’t get something they want
- not want to share toys with other children
Problem-solving, learning and understanding
Your toddler will find toys hidden under layers.
Social/ emotional milestones
- Moves away from you, but looks to make sure you are close by
- Points to show you something interesting
- Puts hands out for you to wash them
- Looks at a few pages in a book with you
- Helps you dress them by pushing arm through sleeve or lifting up foot
Language/ communication milestones
- Tries to say three or more words besides “Mama” or “Dada”
- Follows one-step directions without any gestures, like giving you the toy when you say, “Give it to me.”
Cognitive milestones (learning, thinking, problem-solving)
- Copies you doing chores, like sweeping with a broom
- Plays with toys in a simple way, like pushing a toy car
Movement/ physical development milestones
Walks without holding on to anyone or anything
Scribbles
Drinks from a cup without a lid and may spill sometimes
Feeds themselves with their fingers
Tries to use a spoon
Climbs on and off a couch or chair without help
developmental areas
Gross motor
Your toddler will be able to:
- jump into place
- kick a ball
- throw a ball
Fine motor
They’ll be able to make a ‘train’ using cubes. They’ll be able to use a crayon or marker to copy a vertical line after seeing you do it first.
Communication and hearing
Your toddler will be able to say 2 or 3 word sentences. They will refer to themselves by their names. They will have 50 or more words in their vocabulary.
Social and emotional
Your toddler will:
- match objects to pictures
- imitate or copy others to please them
- not necessarily be distressed if separated from you and will continue with their activity
Your child may:
- test limits to see if they can get their own way
- have temper tantrums when they don’t get their way
- be less frightened by things like heights or strangers
- become less upset by short separations from you
- become more difficult to put to bed
- cry if you’re cross or upset with them
- be jealous if you give attention to other young children
- have an understanding of self – for example, recognising their face in a mirror
You may notice your child:
- asking lots of questions
- being interested in different parts of their body – including their genitals
- saying “no” often – this shows they are gaining confidence
- enjoying sharing their achievements with you and getting your praise and encouragement
- being unable to take the feelings of others into account – they think the world revolves around them
- becoming interested in children of the same age and other adults and talking to them
- becoming more confident so they are able to be apart from you for short periods of time – for example going to pre-school
Problem-solving, learning and understanding
Your toddler will continue to do pretend play. They will copy a line drawn on a piece of paper.
Social/ emotional milestones
- Notices when others are hurt or upset, like pausing or looking sad when someone is crying
- Looks at your face to see how to react in a new situation
Language/ communication milestones
- Points to things in a book when you ask, like “Where is the bear?”
- Says at least two words together, like “More milk.”
- Points to at least two body parts you name, like nose or toes
- Uses more gestures than just waving and pointing, like blowing a kiss or nodding yes
Cognitive milestones (learning, thinking, problem-solving)
- Holds something in one hand while using the other hand; for example, holding a crayon box and taking out a crayon
- Tries to use switches, knobs, or buttons on a toy
- Plays with more than one toy at the same time, like putting toy food on a toy plate
Movement/physical development milestones
- Kicks a ball
- Runs
- Walks (not climbs) up a few stairs with or without help
- Eats with a spoon
